VDM wanted to “knack” me, Phyna reveals…”is there a problem with that,” VDM replies

By Felicia Odom 25.5.2026
Reality TV star Josephina Otabor a.k.a Phyna has claimed that social media influencer and activist Martins Otse a.k.a VeryDarkMan, made sexual demands from her.
Phyna winner of a Big Brother Naija show, made the claims in a series of post on her X social media, noting that it was because she refused to give in to VDM’s advances, he turned against her while she was mourning her sister Ruth Otabor, who died following an accident involving a Dangote truck in 2025.
During the Ruth Otabor and Dangote incident saga, VDM had accused Phyna of demanding excessive compensatory amounts from the cement company, enhance they were reluctant to follow up with the treatment of her sister.
“VeryDarkMan came out to say the opposite of what happened. I can never forgive him because he turned me into a bad person over my sister’s case. He is someone I held in high esteem, but he switched up on me. Claiming I requested N1 billion from Dangote.
” I was shocked because such a conversation never happened. Maybe he started holding grudges against me because he said he wanted to sleep with me and I didn’t accept,” she said.
Meanwhile responding VDM denied the accusation, but asked a rethorical questions.
“Phyna said that I, VeryDarkMan, wanted to sleep with her. She said she has evidence, I will like to see the evidence first because I have never told Phyna that I wanted to sleep with her.
“Number 2, what if I told Phyna that I wanted to sleep with her. Is there a problem with that? Both of us are adults. If I tell you that I want to sleep with you, that would be me seeking your consent. Thank God say, you no talk say I want to rape you or spike your drink so that I can knack you. For you to talk say you get evidence mean say I even asked you. That’s the way it should be done as an adult and thank God say you no be underage.
“So, even if VDM talk say he want sleep with you, what is the problem? I’m not married and she’s also not married. So what really is the matter even if I talk am? I no talk am ooo but what if I talk am.”